The Time is Near To Make A Choice

We learn stories of heroic individuals throughout the years who have risked much to save others.  There are amazing stories of the people along the underground railroad who risked everything to help enslaved Americans find their way to freedom.  The same thing occurred during the Holocaust with families taking in and hiding their Jewish neighbors to save their lives.  These heroes had nothing material to gain from these choices, but they risked everything they had.  Have you ever considered what you would do if you were there?

Would you have taken in a slave or a neighbor to protect them?  Would you have stood up and fought against the Nazi’s like this woman?  https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/A_Woman_Hitting_a_Neo-Nazi_With_Her_Handbag? What will you do when the time comes to make a choice?

I have thought about this from time to time.  I think the answer changes depending upon your current situation.  If you have children at home, you are putting them at risk.  If you own a business or are otherwise engaged in the public eye, you risk financial ruin.  If you have a partner, you bring risk to them.  A married person with a family risks much more than a single person in many ways.  A rich person risks more financial loss than a poor person.  Each of us has a different tolerance for risk.  There is no right answer for everyone or even a right answer for most.  Every choice we make has consequences and we must decide what consequences are worth the risk.

I read today that a synagogue had to remove their Torah and exit the building from the back door out of safety concerns.  During their service, a group of white nationalists stood in a line dressed in fatigues holding long guns across the street from their front door.  A large crowd marched through the campus of the University of Virginia carrying Tiki torches (of all things!) chanting “Jew will not replace us.” In the United States of America in the year 2017 that happened.  How could that be?

That same day, in the same town another racist drove his car into a crowd of people who were standing up against those Nazis, injuring many and killing one.  The whole world was horrified and outraged.  The man who calls himself POTUS didn’t share the outrage.  He said some of the Nazis were “very fine people”.  He made up a fake hate group he named the “alt-left” and said they were bad too.  He suggested we all just learn to get along with each other and unite with these enemies.  He is clearly in alignment with the white nationalists.  He will not lead us in this fight to save humanity.

It is a fight for humanity.  We are all one people.  The idea of racial supremacy is an evil in this world and must be stamped out.  Left with no leader, we must lead ourselves.  What will you do?  How much are you willing to risk?  No matter the individual choices we can all make a difference.  Don’t waste time sitting in despair.  There are many actions you can take.  Call your representatives and tell them how you feel.  Donate money to organizations standing up for human rights.  Donate time to those organization.  Stand up and speak out every time you hear hate speech.  Run for office.  Rally and protest in the streets.  Report hate speech when you see or hear it.  Get their social media pages taken down.  Harbor your neighbor when ICE comes knocking.  Do whatever you feel comfortable with at a risk you can tolerate, but do something.

The time is now.

Are We All Guilty?

I am, basically, color blind.  I am not a crazy person, of course I see that a black person is black, a white person is white and so forth when I am looking at them.  It just doesn’t figure into my opinion of them.  I first noticed this many years ago.  I was in my 20s and attending some movie premier in DC with my husband.  At some point, he leaned over and said, “Do you realize we are the only white people here?”  I looked up, looked around and said, “No, I hadn’t noticed until you mentioned it.”  That’s what I mean by color blind.  You just don’t notice, unless you look.

I am lucky to be this way.  I firmly believe that one can only truly become color blind by spending your life immersed in a multi-cultural community, as I have spent mine.  Every day of my life has been spent interacting on many levels with people of all colors, religions, ethnic backgrounds and it’s made me a better person.  I understand that we all belong to the same race, humans.  We are defined by our thoughts and actions, not the accident of our births.  All humans are equal and deserve basic human rights.  That being said, I am just as guilty as the next person of what I am about to suggest.

We are all guilty of allowing racism to continue.  It doesn’t matter our color, our religion, our background, we all do it.  We sit back and say nothing when crazy uncle Charlie goes off on one of his racist rants.  We roll our eyes.  We may even get up and walk into the kitchen.  We need to stand up and say “Hey, uncle Charlie, you are crazy if you think that way.  It’s not OK to say that.  I don’t want to be around you if you continue in this manner.”  Or, “Charlie, your complaint about that person has nothing to do with their race.  Let’s discuss a good way to handle this without bringing race into the conversation.”  We are in line at the grocery and we accidently overhear an inappropriate conversation and stand there and say nothing.  We watch these horrors on the news and bitch and moan, but change nothing.

Lately, I have noticed a new kind of racist.  They’ve been there all along, I just wasn’t paying attention.  They don’t understand that they are racist.  They harbor no ill will toward other ethnicities.  They don’t believe that they are superior.  But, they do believe that races are different. They believe there are different races and don’t understand there is one race with multiple ethnicities.   I once saw someone post on Facebook – “I decided to seek out an opposing position, so I asked an African-American and a Jewish person.”  The assumption that someone’s opinion on a non-race related subject would automatically differ based on their skin color or religion is ridiculous.  Those that choose to arm up and show up at white supremacist rallies are beyond hope, but these other racists can be swayed.  We need to point out to them, gently and kindly, when they espouse a racist sentiment.

The time is now to start a movement.  Stand Up, Speak Out against racism every time you encounter it.  Don’t engage with people who are openly racist, even if they are family.  Gently and kindly, find ways to expose racist attitudes for what they are.  Turn those conversations around.  Make a difference.

 

Respect or Adoration: Which is Better For Democracy When It Comes To the Military?

In the early 70’s, at the height of the Vietnam War our military was treated with a great deal of disrespect.  The people at home were unhappy with the war and took their frustrations out on the folks that served.  That was not right.  Those soldiers did the job required of them.  They didn’t choose the conflict, they fulfilled their obligation.  It seems most of our nation has come to understand that, but have we swung the pendulum just a little too far?

We now treat service members with a level of respect that could be considered adoration.  We give them discounts at our shops, tickets to our events, we thank them over and over again, we quite simply love those who served.  My question is, should we?

The business of the military is war.  We must never forget that.  Elevating them to a pedestal subtly promotes this business.  Nobody ever seems to argue that we should cut military spending.  Yet, our spending on military is 37% of the spending of the entire world and is equal to the spending of the next 7 largest countries combined.  Seems a little insane to me.  It’s been decades since a hostile nation has attempted a military assault within our borders.  When your business is war, just like any other business you would be wise to stoke the demand.

We should respect our soldiers.  There is no doubt we need them to keep our nation safe.  Our allies need our soldiers to protect them as well.  Those who serve do a job that many of us are unwilling to do.  In return, we sign a pretty decent social contract with them.  Serve honorably, sacrifice for your nation and we will take care of you for the rest of your life.  We will provide medical care, employment opportunities, support services, and if you spend 20 years a pension.  Adoring them, however, is subconsciously adoring war.

What do you think?

More information on US military spending compared to the rest of the world:

https://www.nationalpriorities.org/campaigns/us-military-spending-vs-world/